Announcements

Friday, May 25

6:30 p.m. Spiritual Singing Shabbat Nosh

7:00 p.m. Spiritual Singing Shabbat (only one service)
7:57 p.m. Candle Lighting

Saturday, May 26

Anna Silverman, Cantorial Intern, Shabbat Visit
Bat Mitzvah Jessica Berman
9:00 a.m. Shabbat Morning Services (Main Sanctuary)

Numbers 4:21-7:89, pp. 791-811
Haftarah: Judges 13:2-25, pp. 813-815

9:30 a.m. Shabbat SPACE (Kasakove)
10:15 a.m. Pre-Service Oneg Shabbat
10:45 a.m. Family Kehillah Service & Tot Shabbat
12:00 p.m. Shabbat Tween Lounge & Kiddush
12:30 p.m. Daf Shevui
8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
8:58 p.m. Havdalah/Candle Lighting

The Kiddush Lunch is sponsored by Jessica Berman

in honor of her Bat Mitzvah.

The following people are assisting on Shabbat:

Russ Fayer, President's Chair; Dan Burton, Vice President's Chair;

Lauren Freeman-Bosworth, Gabbai; Rise Stern and David Lacher, Ushers;

Victoria Fisher and Rachel Casanova, Greeters.

MAZAL TOV, REFUAH SHLEIMAH, CONDOLENCES

Mazal Tov to Lynn and Jeffrey Lowin, whose grandson, Samuel David Frank, the son of Joanna Lowin Frank and Mark Frank, has entered into the Covenant.

Those marking a simcha, observing the loss of a loved one, or who is sick or recovering from an illness have delighted/comforted that their lifecycle event has inspired generosity. If you would like to make a donation to Beth El in honor or in memory, please click here.

MINYAN TIMES

Sunday 8:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv 
Monday 8:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Tuesday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Wednesday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Thursday 6:55 a.m. Shacharit; 8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Friday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 7:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv

A Word of Torah
D'var Torah: The Un-Blessed
Rabbi Shoshana Cohen, Conservative Yeshiva Faculty

In this week's parasha, we learn about two additional powers/responsibilities of the kohanim (priests) - one a curse and one a blessing. Verses 5:11-31 tell us of the sota - a woman whose husband suspects her of adultery. She goes before the kohen, who makes her drink a potion that literally contains the words: "May the LORD make you a curse and an imprecation among your people..." But further on, in verses 6:22-27, we get Birkat Kohanim, the Priestly Blessing: "Thus shall you bless the people of Israel. Say to them: 'The LORD bless you and protect you! The LORD deal kindly and graciously with you! The LORD bestow His favor upon you and grant you peace!'" As a bat kohen, the daughter of a modern-day descendant of Aaron, this juxtaposition is doubly meaningful, as what was a source of pride for my father was for me a source of pain.

From the age of two I sat next to my father in the men's section of our orthodox minyan, first in Silver Spring, MD and then on the West Side of Los Angeles. I followed along with the Shema, tracing with my finger the Hebrew letters my father taught me to read, well before I had learned to read English. Drawn to the language, and savoring those precious moments with my learned father, my connection with Torah deepened. By the age of eight I learned to chant Torah trope and read Rashi on the parasha.

Until the age of nine or so I continued to sit in the men's section, participating in what was "really going on" at shul. But there were two moments when I would get a glimpse of what was coming as an Orthodox woman. The first was at age five, when my male friends, having just learned to read Hebrew, got up and led the congregation in Anim Zemirot. And the second was Birkat Kohanim, when my brothers and my father would remove their shoes and go up to bless the congregation.

In late-80's / early-90's Modern Orthodoxy, there were no roles for girls or women in public rituals, even in our relatively liberal shul. But my parents had made a choice, despite their progressive leanings, to remain part of an Orthodox synagogue so as to have a Shabbat observing community and the kind of social and religious life that comes with it. The world has changed since then, and my own religious path led me eventually toward egalitarianism and Conservative Judaism. Over the years I have served as shelichat tzibur (prayer leader) - first for Kabbalat Shabbat, then Ma'ariv, and ultimately Shacharit and Musaf. There is still a part of me that is uncomfortable, but in many ways I have healed the wound of Anim Zemirot.

Birkat Kohanim is a different story. I have not been able to let go of the feeling I had when my father and little brothers went up to bless the congregation and I played with their shoes. It was a club that wouldn't have me as a member, and I don't want to belong. Egalitarian congregations vary in how they handle a bat kohen and Birkat Kohanim. Some say that she is not permitted because as a continuation of a Temple ritual, the blessing should be performed only by those who were authentically eligible to do so in the Temple. Other congregations treat a bat kohen as a kohen in every way. And others do away with the distinction altogether.

As for me, despite pressure from my students and colleagues to do Birkat Kohanim, I have dug my heels in deeper. As with the Sota, patriarchy is too intertwined with the priesthood; the priesthood IS patriarchy. A bat kohen's status come from her father and her few "rights" are revoked upon marriage to a non-kohen. But far more problematically, if a bat kohen has sex with someone before marriage - she gets a punishment far worse than the other daughters of Israel. She is burned. With this, rather than the priestly blessing, echoing in my head, I cannot wear my bat kohen status as an adornment and stand proud before my congregation. 

Perhaps this is the unfinished corner in my own spiritual house, where I remember that in many ways the full redemption, the full release from gender oppression, has yet to come. My daughter will grow up, God willing, with me as her role model of a fully educated and active Jew, and maybe she will be able to reclaim the kohen identity that has thus far remained foreign to me.

For Discussion: How should we handle Kohen status? Should the circle of privilege expand, or should privilege be ended? How do balance our contemporary values with a desire for authentic connection with the past?

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JOB OPENING Beth El is looking for a new Director of Elementary Engagement.  The Director of Elementary Engagement will work collaboratively with professional staff, parents and youth to help create educational and spiritual experiences for our elementary aged children and their families. Click here to see the full job posting.

MUSEUM EXHIBIT, THE WOLLOCH FAMILY HOLOCAUST HAGGADAH, contains full page hand-made prints by artist David Wander. The exhibit will be in the museum through the end of May.

SPIRITUAL SINGING SHABBAT Tonight, service in the Museum and nosh in

the hallway. Enjoy an evening of communal singing with Rabbi Schuck, 

Jack Klebanow and Cantorial Intern Anna Silverman. Appetizers and drinks at

6:30 p.m. followed by services at 7:00 p.m. For more information visit bethelnr.org/spiritualpractices. Our traditional Mincha/Maariv service will join with Spiritual Singing Shabbat. There will be only one service this evening.

OPEN BEIT MIDRASH SCHOLAR Thursday, May 31. Drinks and nosh will be served at 7:30 p.m. followed by the guest scholar at 8:00 p.m. Join us for a special Open Beit Midrash as we welcome guest scholar Rabbi Bronwen Mullin, the first appointed Rabbinic Artist-in-Residence at Town and Village Synagogue and the Jewish Theological Seminary of America, focuses on the intersection of Midrash and contemporary performance in her art. The topic will be “The Rabbis are Present: Torah as Performance Art.” For more information on our Open Beit Midrash, visit bethelnr.org/openbeit.

CAFE SHABBAT Friday, June 1, 5:15–6:45 p.m. Enjoy a musical Shabbat celebration followed by dinner for everyone, dessert, and a PJ Library snuggle story. This event is $15 per adult and free for children. Please RSVP at bethelnr.org/cafeshabbat.

CELEBRATE ISRAEL PARADE Sunday, June 3. Join us at Beth El for a breakfast and face painting at 10:00 a.m. We will learn songs and get ready together. Bus leaves at 11:00 a.m. and our kick off time is 12:30 p.m. Join Beth El with the Westchester Jewish Council as we march up 5th Avenue in celebration of 70 amazing years of Israel. If you are interested in marching in the parade, please RSVP at bethelnr.org/parade.

BOOK LAUNCH Monday, June 4 at Beth El Synagogue Center. Book sales begin at 7:00 p.m. and the program begins at 7:30 p.m. with a book signing to follow. Join author Yossi Klein Halevi and chief representative of Muslim affairs at Duke University Imam Abdullah Antepli as they discuss “Letters to my Palestinian Neighbor: a Jew and a Muslim on the Future of the Middle East.” The evening will be moderated by author, Abigail Pogrebin. Seats are $20 online, $25 at the door, and free for students with a valid ID. Click here to purchase seats.

KALLAH RETREAT June 8–10 at Ramah Berkshires. Join Rabbi Schuck, Rabbi Sitkin, and Deborah Sacks Mintz for a multi-generational community weekend full of ruach and camaraderie. Visit bethelnr.org/kallah to register.

BETH EL SISTERHOOD INSTALLATION Tuesday, June 12. Join us from

7:30–9:00 p.m. for the annual installation of Beth El Sisterhood Officers and Board by Rabbi Sitkin, who will also give a d’var torah. The installation will be followed by an evening of spirit and song led by Jack Klebanow.

JOIN THE CSA Beginning June 20, join the group that cooperatively buys a share of a farm's summer/fall produce. Members get 24 weeks of fresh organic veggies/fruit for a fraction of the price in stores, support a local farmer, and help the needy as extra weekly shares go to the HOPE food pantry. For more information contact Kevin Hylton 646-388-0030 or kbhylton@gmail.com.

WHEREVER WE STAND, WE STAND WITH ISRAEL Beth El's Israel Affairs Committee would like to share interesting and exciting news regarding the week's developments in business, culture, technology, agriculture, sports, and the environment in Israel. 

Rare Jewish Coins Found in Temple Mount Excavation

Israeli Researchers Say They Have Found Way to Curb Growth of Cancer Cells

LIMMUD, LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES, & COMMUNITY EVENTS

RAMAH SPORTS ACADEMY (RSA) This is a Jewish overnight camp for students who are in grades 3-10. It will take place on the campus of Fairfield University (CT) and offers three two-week sessions. Campers choose a “major” from among RSA’s signature sports of soccer, basketball, baseball, swimming, and tennis; electives include fitness training, Ultimate Frisbee, flag football, spinning, Zumba, yoga, meditation, and more. The focus is on coaching, confidence, community, and connection. Kosher kitchen. Dorm room with private bathroom and shower houses up to four people. For information or to arrange a meeting, contact info@ramahsport.org or visit www.ramahsportsacademy.org or call

1-855-577-7678.

THE FUTURE OF ISRAEL AND THE MIDDLE EAST LECTURE Thursday,

May 31, 7:30 p.m. Award-winning New York Times columnist Bret Stephens will discuss “Israel @ 70: What Does the Future hold for Israel and the Middle East?” at Temple Israel Center in White Plains, NY. The event is co-sponsored by the Jewish National Fund and the Five Synagogues of White Plains Israel Action Committee as part of the annual Positively Israel Reception.

PRIDE WEEK MULTI-FAITH GATHERING Thursday, June 21, 7:30 p.m. The American Jewish Committee will be holding a multi-faith gathering at Temple Israel Center in White Plains. It is tentatively being called “Faith and the Lived Experience of the LGBTQ+ Community.” There will be a panel of clergy and participants of different faiths. For more information, please contact Elise Richman at at elisekrichman@gmail.com​​​​​​​.

WEBINAR WITH CHANCELLOR EISEN OF JTS Click the links to view the video of Israel at 70: Bridging Divides and source sheet.

CANCELLATIONS AND CHANGES

SINGING AS A SPIRITUAL PRACTICE CANCELED on Tuesday, May 29, but the next event will be held on Thursday, June 7 at 7:30 p.m.

ONGOING ITEMS

DAY CAMP Visit www.betheldaycamp.org for information and to register.

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL REGISTRATION is open for the 2018-19 school year. Register at www.bethelnr.org/religiousschoolregistration by June 15 to receive a $100 discount.

NURSERY SCHOOL REGISTRATION is open for the 2018-19 school year. Register at www.bethelnurseryschool.org.

ISRAELI FOLK DANCE WITH CANTOR AQUA Sundays, 10:00 a.m. Join us for great exercise and beautiful music. No experience required. For more information contact Cantor Aqua at uaqua@bethelnr.org. Resumes Sunday, June 3.

CARD ROOM meets weekly, 12:45 p.m. Canasta on Mondays; Mah Jongg on Tuesdays. Questions? Contact Arlene Salman at aesalman@aol.com, or

914-235-2485. There will be no cards on Monday, May 28.

OPEN BEIT MIDRASH Join us on alternating Tuesdays and Thursdays for an evening of non-judgmental, thoughtful conversation. Enjoy refreshments at

7:30 p.m. Learning begins at 8:00 p.m. For more information or to sponsor an evening of learning, visit bethelnr.org/openbeit, or contact Rabbi Sitkin at zsitkin@bethelnr.org.

BETH EL DAY OF GOLF Monday–Thursday, 8:00 a.m. or 12:00–1:00 p.m. each week until mid-October. Enjoy a day at Westchester County Course, Saxon Woods, with fellow Beth El members. The cost is $60, which includes the greens and cart fees, plus a $5 credit at the pro shop. Food costs are extra. For more information and to RSVP, contact Jason Silverman at jasons12@optonline.net.

TALMUD DAF SHEVUI STUDY SESSION every Shabbat at 12:30 p.m. in the library. New participants welcome.

* Please note, certain ongoing Beth El programs, initiatives, and items usually included in Shabbat Announcements, can be found at www.bethelnr.org/ongoing.

An archive of all of our "El" newsletter and Shabbat Announcements can be found at bethelnr.org/announcements.

Click here ​​​​​for our full calendar of programs.

Tuesday, May 22 — 8 Sivan 5778

SPIRITUAL SINGING SHABBAT

Friday, May 25. Enjoy an evening of communal singing with

Rabbi Schuck, Jack Klebanow and Cantorial Intern Anna Silverman. 

Appetizers and drinks at 6:30 p.m. followed by services at 7:00 p.m.
For more information visit bethelnr.org/spiritualpractices.

Our traditional Mincha/Maariv service will join with Spiritual Singing Shabbat. There will be only one service this evening.

OPEN BEIT MIDRASH SCHOLAR

Thursday, May 31. Drinks and nosh will be served at 7:30 p.m. followed by the guest scholar at 8:00 p.m. Join us for a special Open Beit Midrash

as we welcome guest scholar Rabbi Bronwen Mullin, the first appointed

Rabbinic Artist-in-Residence at Town and Village Synagogue and the

Jewish Theological Seminary of America, focuses on the intersection of

Midrash and contemporary performance in her art. The topic will be

“The Rabbis are Present: Torah as Performance Art.” For more

information on our Open Beit Midrash, visit bethelnr.org/openbeit.

CAFE SHABBAT

Friday, June 1, 5:15–6:45pm. Enjoy a musical Shabbat celebration followed by dinner for everyone, dessert, and a PJ Library snuggle story. This event is

$15 per adult and free for children. Please RSVP at bethelnr.org/cafeshabbat.

ISRAEL DAY PARADE 

Sunday, June 3. Join us at Beth El for a breakfast and face painting

at 10:00 a.m. We will learn songs and get ready together. Bus leaves at 11:00 a.m. and our kick off time is 12:30pm. Join Beth El with the Westchester

Jewish Council as we march up 5th Avenue in celebration of 70 amazing

years of Israel. If you are interested in marching in the parade,

please RSVP at bethelnr.org/parade.

SAVE THE DATE

Kallah Retreat
June 8–10, for more information please visit bethelnr.org/kallah.

Sisterhood Installation
Tuesday, June 12, 7:30–9:00 p.m.
Join us for the annuall installation of the Beth El Sisterhood Officers and Board.

EXPRESS LINKS

Our "Journey"

More on Our Open Beit Midrash

Limmud Institute Opportunities

More on Our New Teen Program


All Shabbat Announcements, Events and Notices are archived at bethelnr.org/announcements. 

Friday, May 18

5:45 p.m. Memory Minyan 

(Crystal Ballroom)
7:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
7:51 p.m. Candle Lighting

Saturday, May 19

9:00 a.m. Sisterhood Shabbat
9:00 a.m. Shabbat Morning Services (Main Sanctuary)

Numbers 1:1-4:20, pp. 769-785
Haftarah: Hosea 2:1-22, pp. 787-790

9:30 a.m. Shabbat SPACE (Kasakove)
9:45 a.m. Learners Service (Wiener Lounge)
10:15 a.m. Pre-Service Oneg Shabbat
10:45 a.m. Family Kehillah Service & Tot Shabbat
12:00 p.m. Shabbat Tween Lounge & Kiddush
12:30 p.m. Daf Shevui
6:00 p.m. Contemplative Service
6:00 p.m. Teen Shul-In
8:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
9:00 p.m. Tikkun Leil Shavuot
8:58 p.m. Candle Lighting

The Kiddush Lunch is sponsored by Beth El Sisterhood

in honor of Sisterhood Shabbat.

Sunday, May 20

Teen Shavuot Shul-In
9:00 a.m. Shavuot Services
9:30 a.m. Shabbat SPACE (Kasakove)
10:45 a.m. Family Kehillah and Tot Shabbat
5:30 p.m. Shavuot Hang Out
8:10 p.m. Mincha/Shiur/Maariv
8:59 p.m. Candle Lighting

Monday, May 21

6:30 a.m. Shavuot Services (Early Minyan)
9:00 a.m. Shavuot Services (Main Sanctuary)
9:30 a.m. Shabbat SPACE (Kasakove)
10:45 a.m. Family Kehillah and Tot Shabbat
8:10 p.m. Mincha/Shiur/Maariv
8:54 p.m. Havdallah
8:54 p.m. Yom Tov ends

The following people are assisting on Shabbat:

Rise Stern, President's Chair; Mark Silver, Vice President's Chair;

Janis DeMartini and Donna Levy, Gabbai; Sisterhood Members, Ushers;

Lynn Keltz and and Barbara Cohen, Greeters.

MAZAL TOV, REFUAH SHLEIMAH, CONDOLENCES

Those marking a simcha, observing the loss of a loved one, or who is sick or recovering from an illness have delighted/comforted that their lifecycle event has inspired generosity. If you would like to make a donation to Beth El in honor or in memory, please click here.

MINYAN TIMES

Tuesday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Wednesday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Thursday 6:55 a.m. Shacharit; 8:10 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Friday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 7:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv

A Word of Torah
D'var Torah: People & Counting
Rabbi Joel Levy, Rosh Yeshiva, Conservative Yeshiva in Jerusalem

The book of Numbers begins with a great census listing the numbers of all the male Israelites of military age according to their tribes. Parshat Bemidbar continues by describing the tribes arrayed on the plain, a great army of Israelite warriors in precise formation around the tent of meeting, each tribe around its fluttering ancestral banner (2:2).

ב אִישׁ עַל-דִּגְלוֹ בְאֹתֹת לְבֵית אֲבֹתָם, יַחֲנוּ בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל:  מִנֶּגֶד, סָבִיב לְאֹהֶל-מוֹעֵד יַחֲנוּ.
2 'The children of Israel shall pitch by their fathers' houses; every man with his own standard, according to the ensigns; a good way off shall they pitch round about the tent of meeting.

Rashi (France, 1040-1105) comments that this great act of counting comes to demonstrate God's love for Israel and to establish the significance of each and every Israelite. Anyone who has ever accompanied a group of children on a school trip and who has feverishly counted them over and over again will know the deep anxiety of losing even one precious child.

But sadly, instead of marching into Canaan, this great cohort of warriors perishes in the desert - every last one of them except for Caleb and Joshua! Following the sin of the spies, God delivers their sentence:

כט  בַּמִּדְבָּר הַזֶּה יִפְּלוּ פִגְרֵיכֶם וְכָל-פְּקֻדֵיכֶם, לְכָל-מִסְפַּרְכֶם, מִבֶּן עֶשְׂרִים שָׁנָה, וָמָעְלָה:  אֲשֶׁר הֲלִינֹתֶם, עָלָי.
29 Your carcasses shall fall in this wilderness, and all that were numbered of you, according to your whole number, from twenty years old and upward, ye that have murmured against Me.

In his commentary on the verse above, Rashi picks up beautifully and brutally on the role the "numbering" plays in their fate: "Anyone who was included in any census in which you were counted, like the military census or the shekalim census, anyone included in any of these numbers will die..." It is precisely those gloriously arrayed and carefully numbered ranks from Parshat Bemidbar who will be lost forever, their ashes blended imperceptibly into the desert sands.

And yet, when Bnei Yisrael enters the land 40 years later, there is still a full complement of soldiers. How can this be? Herodotus writes about the "ten thousand immortals" of the ancient Persian army who were so called because their unit's strength was kept constantly at exactly 10,000 men; every killed, seriously wounded or sick member was immediately replaced. They were "immortal" precisely because of their facelessness and replaceability. This is how the the Netziv, Naftali Zvi Yehuda Berlin (Poland, 1816-1893) reads Bemidbar in his great work Ha'Emek Davar: the number of soldiers remained constant through the 40 years because they were utterly replaceable. Counting people, it turns out, cuts both ways - either expressing the absolute significance of each individual, or erasing it.

In this day and age, we are profoundly invested in the idea that each individual is a being of infinite value who has a unique and important role to play in the world. Indeed our tradition calls individuals an "olam katan" - a small universe. Religion plays an essential role in impressing upon us the sanctity and infinite worth (Tzelem Elokim) of human life.

But it is also religion's role to give us a sense of the bigger picture, so that we can see how we are pieces of the whole, not the whole itself. Some may even find it calming, or even comforting, to know that we are cogs in a machine - expendable in the extreme. Our immortality, so to speak, lies in our participation in the broader scheme of things, a scheme that we can barely glimpse.

As Rabbi Simcha Bunim of Peschischa taught: In our pockets, we should carry two notes, one that says: "For my sake was the world created" and one that says: "I am but dust and ashes." The trick is in knowing which to take out when.

For Discussion: What personal and societal problems are caused by erring too much to one side or the other? How do we find a healthy balance?

Shavuot Special Events 
​​​​​​​
CONTEMPLATIVE SERVICE Saturday, May 19, 6:00–7:15 p.m. Led by Rabbi Schuck, this service will offer opportunities for contemplative study, mindfulness, meditation and singing.

TIKKUN LEIL SHAVUOT Saturday, May 19, 9:00 p.m.–12:00 a.m. Rabbis David Schuck & Zach Sitkin will teach separate classes that touch on “Pluralism and Diversity in the Jewish Community.”

SHAVUOT HANG OUT Sunday, May 20, 5:30–7:30 p.m. Enjoy a BBQ dinner and outdoor games including basketball, Gaga, and ping pong. All are welcome.

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JOB OPENING Beth El is looking for a new Director of Elementary Engagement.  The Director of Elementary Engagement will work collaboratively with professional staff, parents and youth to help create educational and spiritual experiences for our elementary aged children and their families. Click here to see the full job posting.

MUSEUM EXHIBIT, THE WOLLOCH FAMILY HOLOCAUST HAGGADAH, contains full page hand-made prints by artist David Wander. The exhibit will be in the museum through the end of May.

MEMORY MINYAN Friday, May 18, 5:45–7:30 p.m. The Memory Minyan will create a navigable, warm prayer and social experience. RSVP required, donations appreciated. Please contact Julie Rockowitz for more information and to RSVP at jrockowitz@bethelnr.org or 914-235-2700 ext. 256.

SPRING FILM FESTIVAL Thursday, May 24, 6:30 p.m. The film for the evening will be A Dangerous Method. Our theme this year is “Freud and Lesser Gods: Portraits of Jewish Psychiatrists in Film.” Call the office to register: 914-235-2700, ext. 223.

SISTERHOOD GALA HONORING BARBARA HOROWITZ Tuesday, May 22, 6:00 p.m. for cocktails, dinner at 7:00 p.m. Attendance by reservation only.

SPIRITUAL SINGING SHABBAT Friday, May 25, 6:30 p.m. nosh and drinks followed by 7:00 p.m. services. Enjoy an evening of communal singing with Jack Klebanow, and Cantorial Intern Anna Silverman in the Wiener Lounge. For more information visit bethelnr.org/spiritualpractices.

CELEBRATE ISRAEL PARADE Sunday, June 3. Join us at Beth El for a breakfast and face painting at 10:00am. We will learn songs and get ready together. Bus leaves at 11:00am and our kick off time is 12:30pm. Join Beth El with the Westchester Jewish Council as we march up 5th Avenue in celebration of 70 amazing years of Israel. If you are interested in marching in the parade, please RSVP at bethelnr.org/parade.

BOOK LAUNCH Monday, June 4 at Beth El Synagogue Center. Book sales begin at 7:00 p.m. and the program begins at 7:30 p.m. with a book signing to follow. Join author Yossi Klein Halevi and chief representative of Muslim affairs at Duke University Imam Abdullah Antepli as they discuss “Letters to my Palestinian Neighbor: a Jew and a Muslim on the Future of the Middle East.” The evening will be moderated by author, Abigail Pogrebin. Seats are $20 online, $25 at the door, and free for students with a valid ID. Click here to purchase seats.

CAFE SHABBAT Friday, June 8, 5:15–6:45pm. Enjoy a musical Shabbat celebration followed by dinner for everyone, dessert, and a PJ Library snuggle story. This event is $15 per adult and free for children. Please RSVP at  bethelnr.org/cafeshabbat.

KALLAH RETREAT June 8–10 Join Rabbi Schuck, Rabbi Sitkin, and Deborah Sacks Mintz for a multi-generational community weekend full of ruach and camaraderie. Visit bethelnr.org/kallah to register.

JOIN THE CSA Beginning June 20, join the group that cooperatively buys a share of a farm's summer/fall produce. Members get 24 weeks of fresh organic veggies/fruit for a fraction of the price in stores, support a local farmer, and help the needy as extra weekly shares go to the HOPE food pantry. For more information contact Kevin Hylton 646-388-0030 or kbhylton@gmail.com.

WHEREVER WE STAND, WE STAND WITH ISRAEL Beth El's Israel Affairs Committee would like to share interesting and exciting news regarding the week's developments in business, culture, technology, agriculture, sports, and the environment in Israel. 

Israel’s Netta Barzilai wins Eurovision song contest

Giro D'Italia Finishes Israel Race in Eilat
 

LIMMUD, LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES, & COMMUNITY EVENTS

RAMAH SPORTS ACADEMY (RSA) This is a Jewish overnight camp for students who are in grades 3-10. It will take place on the campus of Fairfield University (CT) and offers three two-week sessions. Campers choose a “major” from among RSA’s signature sports of soccer, basketball, baseball, swimming, and tennis; electives include fitness training, Ultimate Frisbee, flag football, spinning, Zumba, yoga, meditation, and more. The focus is on coaching, confidence, community, and connection. Kosher kitchen. Dorm room with private bathroom and shower houses up to four people. For information or to arrange a meeting, contact info@ramahsport.org or visit www.ramahsportsacademy.org or call

1-855-577-7678.

DEMENTIA DISCUSSIONS Tuesday, May 22, 7:45 p.m. Join us for an interactive discussion at Bet Torah Synagogue, 60 Smith Ave, Mount Kisco, NY, on how to have the conversation with your loved one with memory loss. This educational evening is presented in collaboration with the Alzheimer's Association. Please RSVP to Leila Tavares at ltavares@bettorah.org or 914-666-7595 or visit bettorah.org/addressing-alzheimers.

THE FUTURE OF ISRAEL AND THE MIDDLE EAST LECTURE Thursday,

May 31, 7:30 p.m. Award-winning New York Times columnist Bret Stephens will discuss “Israel @ 70: What Does the Future hold for Israel and the Middle East?” at Temple Israel Center in White Plains, NY. The event is co-sponsored by the Jewish National Fund and the Five Synagogues of White Plains Israel Action Committee as part of the annual Positively Israel Reception.

PRIDE WEEK MULTI-FAITH GATHERING Thursday, June 21, 7:30 p.m. The American Jewish Committee will be holding a multi-faith gathering at Temple Israel Center in White Plains. It is tentatively being called “Faith and the Lived Experience of the LGBTQ+ Community.” There will be a panel of clergy and participants of different faiths. For more information, please contact Elise Richman at at elisekrichman@gmail.com​​​​​​​.

WEBINAR WITH CHANCELLOR EISEN OF JTS Click the links to view the video of Israel at 70: Bridging Divides and source sheet.

CANCELLATIONS AND CHANGES

SINGING AS A SPIRITUAL PRACTICE CANCELED on Tuesday, May 29, but the next event will be held on Thursday, June 7 at 7:30 p.m.

ONGOING ITEMS

DAY CAMP Visit www.newrochelledaycamp.org for information and to register.

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL REGISTRATION is open for the 2018-19 school year. Register at www.bethelnr.org/religiousschoolregistration by June 15 to receive a $100 discount.

NURSERY SCHOOL REGISTRATION is open for the 2018-19 school year. Register at www.bethelnurseryschool.org.

OPEN BEIT MIDRASH Join us on alternating Tuesdays and Thursdays for an evening of non-judgmental, thoughtful conversation. Enjoy refreshments at

7:30 p.m. Learning begins at 8:00 p.m. For more information or to sponsor an evening of learning, visit bethelnr.org/openbeit, or contact Rabbi Sitkin at zsitkin@bethelnr.org.

ISRAELI FOLK DANCE WITH CANTOR AQUA Sundays, 10:00 a.m. Join us for great exercise and beautiful music. No experience required. For more information contact Cantor Aqua at uaqua@bethelnr.org. Resumes Sunday, June 3.

CARD ROOM meets weekly, 12:45 p.m. Canasta on Mondays; Mah Jongg on Tuesdays. Questions? Contact Arlene Salman at aesalman@aol.com, or

914-235-2485. There will be no cards on Monday, May 21 and 28.

TALMUD DAF SHEVUI STUDY SESSION every Shabbat at 12:30 p.m. in the library. New participants welcome.

* Please note, certain ongoing Beth El programs, initiatives, and items usually included in Shabbat Announcements, can be found at www.bethelnr.org/ongoing.

An archive of all of our "El" newsletter and Shabbat Announcements can be found at bethelnr.org/announcements.

Click here ​​​​​for our full calendar of programs.

Tuesday, May 15 — 1 Sivan 5778

MEMORY MINYAN

Friday, May 18 5:45–7:30 p.m. The Memory Minyan will create a navigable,

warm prayer and social experience. RSVP required, donations appreciated.
Please contact Julie Rockowitz for more information and to RSVP at jrockowitz@bethelnr.org or 914-235-2700 ext. 256.

SISTERHOOD SPRING GALA HONORING BARBARA HOROWITZ

Tuesday, May 22. The evening begins with cocktails at 6:00 p.m. followed by dinner at 7:00 p.m. Attendance by reservation only. 

SPIRITUAL SINGING SHABBAT

Friday, May 25, 6:00–8:15 p.m. Enjoy an evening of communal singing with Jack Klebanow, and Cantorial Intern Anna Silverman in the Wiener Lounge. Appetizers and drinks at 6:00 p.m. followed by services at 6:30 p.m.
For more information visit bethelnr.org/spiritualpractices.

ANNOUNCEMENT

Singing as a Spiritual Practice on Tuesday, May 29 has been cancelled,

but the next event will be held on Thursday, June 7 at 7:30 p.m.

ISRAEL DAY PARADE 

Join the Westchester Jewish Council on Sunday, June 3, as we march up 5th Avenue in celebration of 70 amazing years of Israel. If you are interested in marching in the parade, please RSVP at bethelnr.org/parade.

EXPRESS LINKS

Our "Journey"

More on Our Open Beit Midrash

Limmud Institute Opportunities

More on Our New Teen Program


All Shabbat Announcements, Events and Notices are archived at bethelnr.org/announcements. 

Friday, May 11

6:00 p.m. Rosh Hodesh Shabbat Service and Dinner 

(Bekkah Gold's home)
7:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
7:44 p.m. Candle Lighting

Saturday, May 12

9:00 a.m. Birthday Shabbat
9:00 a.m. Bat Mitzvah Julia Klonsky
9:00 a.m. Shabbat Morning Services (Main Sanctuary)

Leviticus 25:1-27:34, pp. 738-761
Haftarah: Jeremiah 16:19-17:14, pp. 763-765

9:30 a.m. Shabbat SPACE (Kasakove)
9:45 a.m. Learners Service (Wiener Lounge)
10:15 a.m. Pre-Service Oneg Shabbat
10:45 a.m. Family Kehillah Service & Tot Shabbat
12:00 p.m. Shabbat Tween Lounge & Kiddush
12:30 p.m. Daf Shevui
12:45 p.m. An Open Conversation about the Future of the Conservative Movement (Wiener Lounge)
7:50 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
8:45 p.m. Havdalah

The Kiddush Lunch is sponsored by Jennifer and Jonathan Klonsky in honor of the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter, Julia Klonsky.

The following people are assisting on Shabbat:

Russ Fayer, President's Chair; Jayne Peister, Vice President's Chair;

Lauren Freeman-Bosworth, Gabbai; Donna Bartell and Nancy Mayerfield, Ushers;

Nadine Jacobson and Nora Klion-Wolloch, Greeters.

MAZAL TOV, REFUAH SHLEIMAH, CONDOLENCES

Condolences to Mark Hirsh on the loss of his mother, Shirley Hirsh.

Those marking a simcha, observing the loss of a loved one, or who is sick or recovering from an illness have delighted/comforted that their lifecycle event has inspired generosity. If you would like to make a donation to Beth El in honor or in memory, please click here.

MINYAN TIMES

Sunday, 8:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Monday 6:55 a.m. Shacharit; 8:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Tuesday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Wednesday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 8:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Thursday 6:55 a.m. Shacharit; 8:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Friday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 7:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv

A Word of Torah
D'var Torah: Channels of Connection
Rachel Schwartz, Conservative Yeshiva Student & Lishma Fellow

This week, we find ourselves in the sixth week of Sefirat HaOmer, the seven-week period between Passover and Shavuot when we, like Bnai Yisrael at Mt. Sinai, prepare ourselves to receive the Torah. We look inwards and examine the ways we manifest Godliness in the world, each week guided by a different kabbalistic sefirah - or divine emanation. This week's sefirah is yesod - the foundation - the manifestation of creating channels of connection.

This joint Torah portion this week, Bahar-Behukkotai, marks the end of the book of Leviticus with laws governing ownership of land and of people. We are also reminded to walk in the way of God's rules and mitzvot and are told of the blessings we will receive if we follow God, or the curses that will fall upon us if we do not. What can we learn from it about building channels of connection?

Imagine a close friend comes to you in despair: She lost her job and has been unable to pay her bills. She offers to do any job you need, in the hopes of getting back on her feet. What do you do?

The Torah refers to this situation as "וְכִֽי־יָמ֣וּךְ אָחִ֔יךָ" - v'chi yamuch achicha. The root of yamuch, the letters mem, vav, chaf, is found only in this Torah portion, where it appears four times. What it actually means, and how that relates to other kinds of poverty, may give us some insight.

The first time, in Vayikra 25:25, our fellow has been forced to sell his or her land holdings. The second time, in VaYikra 25:35, our fellow has somehow come under our power. The third time, VaYikra 25:39, our fellow has been sold to us as a kind of indentured servant. And the fourth time, VaYikra 25:47, our fellow has become an indentured servant to a resident alien - someone who is not part a member of the extended Israelite family.

A careful reader of text, Vayikra Rabba, the midrashic anthology of Leviticus, explains: "There are eight names for a poor person: ani, evyon, misken, rash, dal, dach, mach, helech...Mach [trampled upon] because he is lowly before everyone, like a kind of lowest threshold." (Vayikra Rabba 34:6) The "mach" is one who has dropped below some kind of poverty threshold such that others gain power over them, and can trample them. There is more to do here than just give a little tzedaka or leave the corners of your fields un-harvested.

The Torah commands us to redeem our fellow's lost holdings, returning that which provides financial security, and we are forbidden to take accrued interest on the support we give. They are not to become our slaves, nor are we to let them become slaves to others.

The medieval French commentator, Rashi (1040-1105 CE), explains that when one is faced with a fellow who has fallen on hard times: "You shall support him: Do not allow him to fall down and collapse altogether, in which case it would be difficult to pick him up again [from his dire poverty]. Rather, "support him" while his hand is still faltering [for then it is easier to help him out of his trouble]. To what can this be compared? To a load on a donkey-while it is still on the donkey, one person can grasp it and hold it in place. Once it falls to the ground, however, [even] five people cannot pick it up."

Rashi tasks us with building relationships where we are attuned to the needs and struggles of those around us, including ourselves. When your friend comes to you, desperate for a job, you are to give her a fair job with a fair wage, treat her with kindness and not take advantage of her position. It is your obligation to strengthen her as she falters and to pick her up before she sinks too low.

This week, guided by both our parasha and Sefirat HaOmer, we should reflect on the foundation of the relationships we have built with those around us. Are we able to know when our family and friends need a strengthening hand? Are they able to know when we need a strengthening hand? If the answer is no, we must open a channel of connection. And if the answer is yes, we should reinforce the channel of connection with expressions of gratitude.

חֲזַק חֲזַק וְנִתְחַזֵּק - Be strong, be strong, 
and we shall be strengthened.

For Discussion: How do we, within the Jewish community, fulfill the Torah's command to strengthen those who have fallen on hard times? How does this compare to the broader society? What should we do to close the gap?

SHAVUOT SERVICES

Saturday Evening, May 19
6:00 p.m. | Contemplative Service (see below for more details)
8:00 p.m. | Mincha/Maariv
9:00 p.m. | Tikkun Leil Shavuot (see below for more details)
7:00 p.m. | Teen Shul-In
8:51 p.m. | Light candles

Sunday, May 20
9:00 a.m. | Morning Services
9:30 a.m. | Shabbat SPACE
10:45 a.m. | Family Kehillah and Tot Shabbat
5:30 p.m. | Shavuot Hang Out (see below for more details)
8:10 p.m. | Mincha/Maariv
8:52 p.m. | Light candles

Monday, May 21
6:30 a.m. | Early morning service with Yizkor
9:00 a.m. | Morning Services with Yizkor
9:30 a.m. | Shabbat SPACE
10:45 a.m. | Family Kehillah and Tot Shabbat
8:10 p.m. | Mincha/Shiur/Maariv
8:54 p.m. | Yom Tov ends

CONTEMPLATIVE SERVICE 6:00–7:15 p.m. on Saturday, May 19. Led by Rabbi Schuck, this service will offer opportunities for contemplative study, mindfulness, meditation and singing.

TIKKUN LEIL SHAVUOT 9 p.m.-12:00 a.m. Saturday, May 19. Rabbis David Schuck & Zach Sitkin will teach separate classes that touch on “Pluralism and Diversity in the Jewish Community.”

SHAVUOT HANG OUT Sunday, May 20, 5:30-7:30 p.m. Enjoy a BBQ dinner and outdoor games including basketball, Gaga, and ping-pong. All are welcome. Register at bethelnr.org/fun by May 14.

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JOB OPENING Beth El is looking for a new Director of Elementary Engagement.  The Director of Elementary Engagement will work collaboratively with professional staff, parents and youth to help create educational and spiritual experiences for our elementary aged children and their families. Click here to see the full job posting.

MUSEUM EXHIBIT, THE WOLLOCH FAMILY HOLOCAUST HAGGADAH, contains full page hand-made prints by artist David Wander. The exhibit will be in the museum through the end of May.

SPRING FILM FESTIVAL Thursday, May 17 at 6:30 p.m. The film for the evening will be Ordinary People, and the festival concludes Thursday, May 24 with the film A Dangerous Method. Our theme this year is “Freud and Lesser Gods: Portraits of Jewish Psychiatrists in Film.” Call the office to register: 914-235-2700, ext. 223.

OPEN CONVERSATION ON CONSERVATIVE JUDAISM Saturday, May 12. Join Rabbi Schuck for conversation on the future of the Conservative Movement following Kiddush. Rabbi Schuck will share his own reactions to some of the larger questions that were raised during an evening back in March where four rabbis shared their thoughts on the future of the Conservative Movement. He will answer questions that people have both about the movement and the future of Beth El.

SISTERHOOD GALA HONORING BARBARA HOROWITZ Tuesday, May 22 beginning at 6:00 p.m. for cocktails and dinner at 7:00 p.m. Attendance by reservation only; RSVP by May 13 to Carol Freedman at 914-235-1527. 

MEMORY MINYAN Friday, May 18 5:45–7:30 p.m. The Memory Minyan will create a navigable, warm prayer and social experience. RSVP required, donations appreciated. Please contact Julie Rockowitz for more information and to RSVP at jrockowitz@bethelnr.org or 914-235-2700 ext. 256.

CELEBRATE ISRAEL PARADE Sunday, June 3. Join the Westchester Jewish Council as we march up 5th Avenue in celebration of 70 amazing years of Israel. If you are interested in marching in the parade, please RSVP at bethelnr.org/parade.

BOOK LAUNCH Monday, June 4 at Beth El Synagogue Center. Book sales begin at 7:00 p.m. and the program begins at 7:30 p.m. with a book signing to follow. Join author Yossi Klein Halevi and chief representative of Muslim affairs at Duke University Imam Abdullah Antepli as they discuss “Letters to my Palestinian Neighbor: a Jew and a Muslim on the Future of the Middle East.” The evening will be moderated by author, Abigail Pogrebin. Seats are $20 online, $25 at the door, and free for students with a valid ID. Click here to purchase seats.

KALLAH RETREAT June 8–10 Join Rabbi Schuck, Rabbi Sitkin, and Deborah Sacks Mintz for a multi-generational community weekend full of ruach and camaraderie. Visit www.bethelnr.org/kallah to register.

JOIN THE CSA Beginning June 20, join the group that cooperatively buys a share of a farm's summer/fall produce. Members get 24 weeks of fresh organic veggies/fruit for a fraction of the price in stores, support a local farmer, and help the needy as extra weekly shares go to the HOPE food pantry. For more information contact Kevin Hylton 646-388-0030 or kbhylton@gmail.com.

WHEREVER WE STAND, WE STAND WITH ISRAEL Beth El's Israel Affairs Committee would like to share interesting and exciting news regarding the week's developments in business, culture, technology, agriculture, sports, and the environment in Israel. 

Connecting Jews and Arabs through a shared love of soccer

Cycle City: Tel Aviv Dedicates Mideast’s 1st Olympic-Standard Indoor Velodrome
 

LIMMUD, LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES, & COMMUNITY EVENTS

ZUMBA Treat yourself to fun excercise for Mother's Day and come to Zumba on Sunday, May 13. This is our last class this spring and then classes will resume in the fall. Class is 9:30–10:30 a.m., $10. Drop-ins welcome! For more information, please contact Carrie Fox at csfox99@gmail.com.

FLOATING LETTERS: THE WIDOW ROMM AND THE PRINTING PRESS

OF VILNA Raizie Chechik, Head of School at Manhattan Day School, will present on Tuesday, May 15 at 8:15 p.m. at Young Israel of New Rochelle, 1149 North Avenue, New Rochelle. The lecture, sponsored by the Women’s Initiative for Jewish Studies, is free and open to women and men. For more information please email wijs@yinr.org.

PARENT PLAYDATE AND MUSIC SESSION Join our free playdate on Friday, May 18 from 9:15–10:45 a.m., with a music program at 10 a.m. at Schechter Westchester Lower School, 30 Dellwood Road, White Plains, NY. Connect with other parents of babies. Bring your child ages 2 and under to relax and socialize. Refreshments will be available. All are welcome! For more information and to RSVP, contact Diana Schutt at Sadmissions@schechterwestchester.org or call (914) 948-3111 ext. 4370.

DEMENTIA DISCUSSIONS Tuesday, May 22 at 7:45 p.m. at Bet Torah Synagogue, 60 Smith Ave, Mount Kisco, NY. Join us for an interactive discussion on how to have the conversation with your loved one with memory loss. This educational evening is presented in collaboration with the Alzheimer's Association. Please RSVP to Leila Tavares at ltavares@bettorah.org or 914-666-7595 or visit bettorah.org/addressing-alzheimers.

THE FUTURE OF ISRAEL AND THE MIDDLE EAST LECTURE 

Award-winning New York Times columnist Bret Stephens will discuss “Israel @ 70: What Does the Future hold for Israel and the Middle East?” on Thursday, May 31, at 7:30 at Temple Israel Center in White Plains, NY. The event is co-sponsored by the Jewish National Fund and the Five Synagogues of White Plains Israel Action Committee as part of the annual Positively Israel Reception. 

PRIDE WEEK MULTI-FAITH GATHERING Thursday, June 21 at 7:30 p.m. The American Jewish Committee will be holding a multi-faith gathering at Temple Israel Center in White Plains. It is tentatively being called “Faith and the Lived Experience of the LGBTQ+ Community.” There will be a panel of clergy and participants of different faiths. For more information please contact Elise Richman at elisekrichman@gmail.com​​​​​​​​​​​​​​.

WEBINAR WITH CHANCELLOR EISEN OF JTS Click the links to view the video of Israel at 70: Bridging Divides and source sheet.

ONGOING ITEMS

Day Camp: Visit www.betheldaycamp.org for information and to register.

Religious School Registration is open for the 2018-19 school year. Register at  www.bethelnr.org/religiousschoolregistration by June 15 to receive a $100 discount. 

Nursery School Registration is open for the 2018-19 school year. Register at www.bethelnurseryschool.org.

Open Beit Midrash Join us on alternating Tuesdays and Thursdays for an evening of non-judgmental, thoughtful conversation. Enjoy refreshments at

7:30 p.m. Learning begins at 8:00 p.m. For more information or to sponsor an evening of learning, visit bethelnr.org/openbeit, or contact Rabbi Sitkin at  zsitkin@bethelnr.org.

Card Room meets weekly, 12:45 p.m. Canasta on Mondays; Mah Jongg on Tuesdays. Questions? Contact Arlene Salman at aesalman@aol.com, or

914-235-2485. There will be no cards on Monday, May 21 due to Shavuot.

Talmud Daf Shevui Study Session every Shabbat at 12:30 p.m. in the library. New participants welcome.

* Please note, certain ongoing Beth El programs, initiatives, and items usually included in Shabbat Announcements, can be found at www.bethelnr.org/ongoing.

An archive of all of our "El" newsletter and Shabbat Announcements can be found at bethelnr.org/announcements.

Click here ​​​​​for our full calendar of programs.

 Visit our Website

REMINDER: OPEN BEIT MIDRASH TONIGHT

Join us for an evening of non-judgmental, thoughtful conversation with teachers Rabbi Zach Sitkin, Rabbi David Schuck, and Rabbi Ethan Linden. Enjoy sushi and alcohol at 7:30 p.m. Learning begins at 8:00 p.m. This event is open to all!

OPEN CONVERSATION ON CONSERVATIVE JUDAISM

Saturday, May 12 following kiddush. Rabbi Schuck will share his own reactions

to some of the larger questions that were raised on March 27 when

he met with four other Rabbis to discuss the future of the Conservative Movement.

He will also answer questions that people have both about the movement

and the future of Beth El.

SHAVUOT SERVICES 
Saturday, May 19 - Monday, May 21
 

SHAVUOT EVENTS

Contemplative Service | May 19, 6:00–7:15 p.m. 
Led by Rabbi Schuck, this experience will offer opportunities for

contemplative study, mindfulness, meditation, and singing.

Tikkun Leil Shavuot | May 19, 9:00 p.m.–12:00 a.m.
Rabbis David Schuck & Zach Sitkin will teach separate classes that touch on “Pluralism and Diversity in the Jewish Community.”

Shavuot Hang Out | May 20, 5:30–7:30 p.m. 
Enjoy a BBQ dinner and outdoor games including basketball, Gaga,

and ping-pong. All are welcome. $10/adult, $5/child, ages 2 and under are free. Advanced registration requested at bethelnr.org/fun.

KALLAH RETREAT

June 8–10, Join Rabbi Schuck, Rabbi Sitkin, and Deborah Sacks Mintz for a

multi-generational community weekend full of ruach and camaraderie.
Visit www.bethelnr.org/kallah to register.

SAVE THE DATE

Spiritual Singing Shabbat
Saturday, May 25, 6:00–8:15 p.m. in the Wiener Lounge.

Café Shabbat
Saturday, June 1, 5:15–6:45 p.m.

For more information please visit bethelnr.org/cafeshabbat.

Israel Day Parade
Sunday, June 3. For more information,

please visit bethelnr.org/parade. 

EXPRESS LINKS

Our "Journey"

More on Our Open Beit Midrash

Limmud Institute Opportunities

More on Our New Teen Program


STAY INFORMED:
All Shabbat Announcements, Events and Notices are archived at bethelnr.org/announcements. 

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Friday, May 4

6:30 p.m. Teen Shabbat Dinner 

(Rabbi Sitkin's Family Home)
7:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
7:37 p.m. Candle Lighting

Saturday, May 5

9:00 a.m. Niggun HaLev (Melody of the Heart)

in the Crystal Ballroom

Leviticus 21:1-24:23, pp. 717-733
Haftarah: Ezekiel 44:15-31, pp. 735-737

9:30 a.m. Shabbat SPACE (Kasakove)
10:15 a.m. Pre-Service Oneg Shabbat
10:30 a.m. Niggun HaLev Break Out Session

(Wiener Lounge)
10:45 a.m. Family Kehillah Service & Tot Shabbat
12:00 p.m. Shabbat Tween Lounge & Kiddush
12:30 p.m. Daf Shevui
7:40 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
9:00 p.m. Melaveh Malkah with Deborah Sacks Mintz
(at the Chinitz home)
8:38 p.m. Havdalah

The Kiddush Lunch is sponsored by Beth El Synagogue Center.

The following people are assisting on Shabbat:

Steve Young, Gabbai; Tracey Levy and Marci Marcus, Ushers;

Barbara Horowitz and Rita Kaufman, Greeters.

MAZAL TOV, REFUAH SHLEIMAH, CONDOLENCES

Mazel Tov to Drs. Paul and Carol Diament on the engagement of their grandson, Elias Gurewitsch, son of Dr. Edith Gurewitsch Allen, to Melissa Amler.

Mazal Tov to Grandparents Rabbi Melvin and Lenore Sirner on

the birth of their new grandson Aiden Elie, and to parents

Gabrielle Sirner Cohen and Morris Cohen. 

Condolences to Sharon Schoenholtz on the loss of her mother,

Evelyn Schoenholtz.

Those marking a simcha, observing the loss of a loved one, or who is sick or recovering from an illness have delighted/comforted that their lifecycle event has inspired generosity. If you would like to make a donation to Beth El in honor or in memory, please click here.

MINYAN TIMES

Sunday, 8:00 a.m. Shacharit; 7:50 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Monday 6:55 a.m. Shacharit; 7:50 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Tuesday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 7:50 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Wednesday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 7:50 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Thursday 6:55 a.m. Shacharit; 7:50 p.m. Mincha/Maariv
Friday 7:00 a.m. Shacharit; 7:00 p.m. Mincha/Maariv

A Word of Torah
D'var Torah: Power & Responsibility
Josh Cohen, Conservative Yeshiva Student & Lishma Fellow

This week's parasha, Emor, contains a variety of laws that God commands Bnei Yisrael through Moses. Among these laws are prohibitions concerning Kohanim and dead bodies, the Kohen's physical appearance, who a Kohen can marry, and when a Kohen is unfit for service. There are also laws regarding the requirements and suitability of sacrifices, who may eat them and when, instructions for the Ner Tamid, as well as an overview of the obligations and schedule for Shabbat, Pesach, Sefirat HaOmer, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Sukkot. The parasha concludes with a short story about the son of an Israelite woman who, in the heat of a fight, profaned the name of God and is sentenced to death by stoning. This event prompts God to deliver the final laws of the parasha which deal with civil restitution, wherein the famous phrase is recorded "eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth." (VaYikra 25:20).

What connects this long and seemingly unrelated list of laws is the central value of holiness/sanctity, and the dual imperative to sanctify and NOT defile/profane. At the end of Chapter 22 Bnei Yisrael is instructed to observe these laws so that "You shall not profane My holy name, that I may be sanctified in the midst of the Israelite people - I the Lord who sanctify you." (VaYikra 22:32) This echoes back to last week's parasha, when God tells Bnei Israel that they "shall be holy, for I, the Lord your God, am holy." (VaYikra 19:2).

But parashat Emor takes this further, exploring what holiness means through detailed rules regarding holy people (Kohanim/Priests), holy places (Mishkan/ Tabernacle), holy things (Kodshim/Sacrificial Gifts) and holy time (Moadim/ Holidays). Since the Kohanim "are holy to your God" (VaYikra  21:7), a Kohen must observe the laws pertaining to cemeteries, shaving, and marriage so that "...he shall not defile himself...and so profane himself." (VaYikra 21:4). The holy people (Kohanim) must be careful about who enters the Mishkan lest, "He profane these places sacred to Me..." (VaYikra 21:23). Again And they must "be scrupulous about the sacred gifts that the Israelite people consecrate to Me, lest they profane My holy Name." (VaYikra 22:2). Chapter 23's instructions regarding the Moadim are not accompanied by an explicit charge against profanation, but as mikraei kodesh (holy occasions) they also reflects this duality. Their sanctity calls for us not only to perform holy acts (sacrifices and other rituals), but also to refrain from mundane activities (work/melacha).

Parashat Emor teaches that the holiness with which we are charged is not a stable state of being, it is an elevated status that requires perpetual safeguarding and sanctifying. Bnei Yisrael is holy so long as they behave accordingly: so long as the Kohanim honor and maintain their own holiness, so long as the Mishkan is protected from defilement, so long as the sacrifices are suitable and significant, and so long as the holidays are celebrated at their appointed times and in the proper manner. With the great power to sanctify, comes the great responsibility not to defile/profane.

But what of the final laws of the parasha? Why does profaning God's name (in essence, using God's name to curse and not bless) require putting someone to death, and how does that connect to "an eye for an eye"? The overall message seems to be the reflexive nature of profanation and sin. Profane the holy, and you profane your own holiness. Violate someone's sanctity, and your sanctity is violated. Fail to protect God, and you forfeit God's protection.

But there seems to be another level here as well. Verse 24:14 says that "all those who heard him should lay their hands on his head." This laying of hands, reminiscent of what is done with a sin offering, communicates that it is not only the blasphemer, but all those who heard him, who need expiation before God. Having heard someone profane God's name, their connection to God, indeed their very lives, are at risk. As we know from elsewhere in the Torah, when Israelites spurn God, people die. By laying hands on the blasphemer and then stoning him, the hearers purge themselves of their sin, and the community purges itself of the defilement in its midst, returning the community to the level of holiness needed to maintain God's protective presence. In essence, the blasphemer's life is forfeit because he made their lives forfeit. It's just that in this instance, God gave them a chance to fix things first.

For Discussion: In what ways are we "defiled" and our connection with God damaged by things we hear or see? How does one return to a state of holiness?

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MUSEUM EXHIBIT, THE WOLLOCH FAMILY HOLOCAUST HAGGADAH, contains full page hand-made prints by artist David Wander. The exhibit will be in the museum through the end of May.

KALLAH RETREAT June 8–10 Join Rabbi Schuck, Rabbi Sitkin, and Deborah Sacks Mintz for a multi-generational community weekend full of ruach and camaraderie. Visit www.bethelnr.org/kallah to register.

SPRING FILM FESTIVAL Thursday, May 10 at 6:30 p.m. The film for the evening will be The Prince of Tides, and continues for three additional consecutive Thursdays. Our theme this year is “Freud and Lesser Gods: Portraits of Jewish Psychiatrists in Film.” Call the office to register: 914-235-2700, ext. 223.

NEW ROCHELLE HADDASH EVENT Monday, May 7 in the Wiener Lounge.
Special guest speaker, Gloria Goldreich, award winning author, lecturer and teacher will be speaking about “Israel: The land of the Book.” Light lunch will be served at 12:30 p.m. and the program will begin at 1:00 p.m.

PROJECT HOPE will be preparing a meal on Tuesday, May 8 at 8:30 AM in Beth El’s dairy kitchen. All are welcome! For questions, contact Barbara Engelson, BLE229@aol.com.

“LET'S TALK ABOUT IT” DISCUSSION GROUP sponsored by Keruv Committee will be taking place off-site on Thursday, May 10 at 7:30 p.m.

OPEN CONVERSATION ON CONSERVATIVE JUDAISM May 12 following kiddush. Rabbi Schuck will share his own reactions to some of the larger questions that were raised on March 27 when he met with four other Rabbis to discuss the future of the Conservative Movement. He will also answer questions that people have both about the movement and the future of Beth El.

SHAVUOT SERVICES will take place Saturday, May 19–Monday, May 21.

TIKKUN LEIL SHAVUOT Saturday Night, May 19. An evening-long study session held on the night of Shavuot. More details coming soon!

SHAVUOT HANG OUT Sunday, May 20. Enjoy a BBQ dinner and outdoor games including basketball, Gaga, and ping-pong. All are welcome. Register at bethelnr.org/fun.

SISTERHOOD GALA HONORING BARBARA HOROWITZ Tuesday, May 22 beginning at 6:00 p.m. for cocktails and dinner at 7:00 p.m. Attendance by reservation only; RSVP by May 13 to the Beth El Office; call 914-235-2700, ask for Alise during business hours. After 5 p.m., call Carol Freedman at 914-235-1527. 

DEMENTIA DISCUSSIONS Tuesday, May 22 at 7:45 p.m. at Bet Torah Synagogue, 60 Smith Ave, Mount Kisco, NY. Join us for an interactive discussion on how to have the conversation with your loved one with memory loss. This educational evening is presented in collaboration with the Alzheimer's Association. Please RSVP to Leila Tavares at ltavares@bettorah.org or 914-666-7595 or visit bettorah.org/addressing-alzheimers.

CELEBRATE ISRAEL PARADE Sunday, June 3. Join the Westchester Jewish Council as we march up 5th Avenue in celebration of 70 amazing years of Israel. If you are interested in marching in the parade, please contact Abby Wise at awise@bethelnr.org.

WHEREVER WE STAND, WE STAND WITH ISRAEL: Beth El's Israel Affairs Committee would like to share interesting and exciting news regarding the week's developments in business, culture, technology, agriculture, sports, and the environment in Israel. 

$280 million expansion at Ben Gurion Airport to meet record number of tourists

Glamping comes to the Ramon Crater, part of Tourism Ministry campaign
 

LIMMUD, LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES, & COMMUNITY EVENTS

ZUMBA Our last two classes this Spring are Sunday May 6 and Sunday May 13, and then classes will resume in the Fall. Classes are 9:30-10:30am, $10. Drop ins welcome! For more information, please contact Carrie Fox at csfox99@gmail.com.

JEWISH HISTORY & HERITAGE MONTH CELEBRATION Monday, May 7. Join us at 6 p.m. for a reception with the County Board of Legislators. At 6:30 p.m. the program will begin in the Michaelian Office Building, 148 Martine Avenue, 8th Floor, White Plains. This event is hosted by the Westchester County Board of Legislators, Chairman Benjamin Boykin, and the Westchester Jewish Council. The reception and program are free and open to all Kosher dietary laws observed. Contact Westchester Jewish Council, Donna Bartell at donna@wjcouncil.org or 914-328-7001. 

FLOATING LETTERS: THE WIDOW ROMM AND THE PRINTING PRESS

OF VILNA Raizie Chechik, Head of School at Manhattan Day School, will present on Tuesday May 15 at 8:15 p.m. at Young Israel of New Rochelle, 1149 North Avenue, New Rochelle. The lecture, sponsored by the Women’s Initiative for Jewish Studies, is free and open to women and men. For more information please email wijs@yinr.org.

JOIN THE CSA A group who cooperatively buy a share of a farm's summer/fall produce. Members get 24 weeks of fresh organic veggies/fruit for a fraction of the price in the stores, support a local farmer, and help the needy as extra weekly shares go to the HOPE food pantry. For more information contact Kevin Hylton 646-388-0030 or kbhylton@gmail.com.

WEBINAR WITH CHANCELLOR EISEN OF JTS Click the links to view the video of Israel at 70: Bridging Divides and source sheet.

ONGOING ITEMS

Day Camp: Visit www.newrochelledaycamp.org for information and to register.

Religious School Registration is open for the 2018-19 school year. Register at  www.bethelnr.org/religiousschoolregistration by June 15 to receive a $100 discount. 

Card Room meets weekly, 12:45 p.m. Canasta on Mondays; Mah Jongg on Tuesdays. Qustions? Contact Arlene Salman at aesalman@aol.com , or 914-235-2485.

Talmud Daf Shevui Study Session every Shabbat at 12:30 p.m. in the library. New participants welcome. Download the weekly portion at www.conservativeyeshiva.org/category/daf-shevui.

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REMINDER: COMMUNITY NIGHT FOR ISRAEL

& DESSERT RECEPTION TONIGHT

Tonight at 7:30 p.m. Guest Speaker Dana Weiss, Anchor and

Senior Correspondent for Israel’s Channel 2 News and former moderator

of Israel’s Meet the Press. The topic for the evening is 

“Meet the Press: Behind the Scenes of Israeli Politics – an overview of the latest developments in Israeli politics, domestic issues, foreign relations, and national security.” No couvert required, but Israeli Bond Investments are encouraged.

To RSVP or for more information, contact Cynthia Blustein at cynthia.blustein@israelbonds.com or 914-713-9003.  

REMINDER: FINAL NIGGUN HALEV

AND SPECIAL SATURDAY NIGHT PROGRAM 

This Saturday, May 5, join us for our final song-filled Shabbat morning service

led by Deborah Sacks Mintz, Jack Klebanow and Rabbi David A. Schuck.

The service will take place at 9:00 a.m. in the Crystal Ballroom

and will also include an alternative Torah reading. Following the service,

Deborah will lead a Women's Open Beit Midrash program, 

"Preparing for Shavuot: The Chesed of Ruth and Naomi" at 12:30 p.m.
 
Melaveh Malkah
Along with this month's Niggun HaLev, join us for our special Saturday program

Melaveh Malkah. The program begins at 9:00 p.m., location TBA. Whether you

enjoy singing, music, or gathering with friends to share a glass of wine, 

this evening will be warm and joyful.

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SPRING FILM FESTIVAL RETURNS

Thursday, May 3, the festival begins with Freud, and continues for

three additional consecutive Thursdays. Our theme this year is

"Freud and Lesser Gods: Portraits of Jewish Psychiatrists in Film."

Call the office 914-235-2700, ext. 223 or click here to register.

ANNOUNCEMENT: 

SISTERHOOD SPRING GALA HONORING BARBARA HOROWITZ

Tuesday, May 22, cocktails begin at 6:00 p.m. and dinner begins at 7:00 p.m.

The cost is $75 per person. Attendance by reservation only, 

please RSVP by May 13 to the Beth El office 914-235-2700

and ask for Alise during business hours or

Carol Freedman after 5 p.m. at 914-235-1527

SAVE THE DATE:

 Shavuot Services 
Saturday, May 19 - Monday, May 21 

Shavuot Events 
Tikkun Leil Shavuot - Saturday Night, May 19
An evening-long study session held on the night of Shavuot.

More details coming soon!

Shavuot Hang Out - Sunday, May 20
Enjoy a BBQ dinner and outdoor games including basketball,

Gaga, and ping-pong. All are welcome.

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